Finally, I got the chance to watch "He’s just not that into you", and despite the fact that most of the guys didn’t like the movie because they thought it’s shallow or making them all jerks and all women insane, I still believe it’s a good one.
The movie shows how we "girls" over analyze things in relationships and create execuses to the guys we love just to relief ourselves, while guys are direct and obvious, when they do not call you, then they do not WANT to call you, why should we bother ourselves by creating excuses for them. They can speak for themselves!
Girls should be strong enough to let go and move on when someone gives up on her.
When a guy loves truly, he will do anything and everything for the one he loves. Just make sure he "loves" you!
The movie is based on the book with the same title "He’s just not that into you" that I’ve read years ago. At that time I thought the book is exaggerating, and is emphasizing on the idea that almost all guys are not into you!
Yet when I grew a bit older, looked back at my life, I realized there was no exaggeration. Bottom line…since he’s not with you now then he was never into you"!
I know that girls will like this movie, however I believe that guys should see it too, it gives a deeper insight about how girls think, feel and need in their lives.
If your guy cares, he will want to watch the movie and he will understand. Otherwise, he might not be just that into you 😛 (J/K)
Movie’s Favorite Quote:
Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up: if a boy punches you he likes you, never try to trim your own bangs, and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending, every movie we see, every story we’re told implores us to wait for it: the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule, but sometimes we’re so focused on finding our happy ending we don’t learn how to read the signs, how to tell the ones who want us from the ones who don’t, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave, and maybe a happy ending doesn’t include a guy, maybe it’s you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future, maybe the happy ending is just moving on, or maybe the happy ending is this: knowing after all the unreturned phone calls and broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment… you never gave up hope.
Other interesting Quotes:
Quote1: All of my friends used to tell me these stories about how things might work out with these dipshits because they knew someone who knew someone who dated a dipshit just like mine and that girl ended up married and living happily ever after. But, that’s the exception, and we’re not the exception. We’re the rule.
Quote2: Guys invented the "spark" so that they could not call, and treat you kind of bad, and keep you guessing, and they convince you that that anxiety and that fear that they’re throwing at you is actually, just a "spark". And you guys all buy it. You eat it up. And you love it. You love it because you feed off that drama. You all love that drama.